Wednesday, July 24, 2019

Next time in Nice

Written by:  Amy in consultation with Colleen in their flat in Nice, France

July 24th

When you come to Nice next, might we recommend bringing:


  • Your own floaty
They are very nice to have in the wonderful water on the beaches of Nice.  Bring one from home so you don't have to purchase one here.
  • Sunscreen
They have sunscreen here, but if you don't speak French, it's anyone's guess what SPF you purchased.  It would also be good to know if the sunscreen is waterproof.  You'll be in and out of the ocean, so make sure you're covered.  It's sunny here, so be prepared!

  • Really good sunglasses
Sunglasses are great for protecting your eyes from the sun.  They also help when your eyes are drawn to the myriad of mostly naked bodies--at least no one can definitively prove you've been looking if you're wearing your shades.  The first time you spy a topless sunbather, you will thank me.
  • A handheld fan
Ours has gotten quite the workout this week. It's hot and muggy and moving that air around feels blissful.  Colleen and I love the heat and we like the fan.  Also comes in handy when your facial expression shows that you've been looking at the bodies around you.
  • Good water shoes
There's rocks where we are used to having sand.  Water shoes help you get in and out of the water without looking like a stumbling drunk.
  • A bikini
I don't care what you feel your body type is--bring a bikini.  Everybody here wears one, the skimpier the better.  If you're still thinking that you gotta do some more whatever (diet, botox, surgery) before you wear a bikini.  You're wrong.  Wear that bikini and be proud.  I can hear your internal dialogue!  LISTEN TO ME LINDA.  Wear the bikini.  Seriously.  And, take off your top to sunbathe.  
  • Comfortable flip flops
The beaches are stone and those stones can get hot.  Plus, if you go with me then you will be walking around a lot.  So, comfortable flip flops are a must.



  • Google Translate
While we have been mostly okay saying "Bonjour, Hello" to indicate our lack of French, the train kiosks are mostly in French and there's no one in the terminal to help.  So, get your Google Translate on.  Better yet, download it to your phone cause you might now have wifi or service whilst here.

  • A good map
Whether it be Google Maps or an actual map (or both!) Nice is a strangely laid out city.  Getting around to the grocery store and other necessities and sites requires a map. 
  • Willingness to relax
The pace is much slower here.  So, take a breath and decide that sitting by the beach is something you can do.  Let some of the worry away.  Let the sound of the rocks and the waves lull you into a semi meditative state.  This is foreign to me, so I had to bring a book.  But, I eventually found it.
  • Us
We loved it here.  The French Riviera was really...well...nice!

Nice and Monaco July 20 - 25, 2019

Monday, July 22, 2019

Colleen needs to go to gaol.

Written by:  Amy with an assist from Colleen in Nice watching jeans dry on the line outside the flat

Colleen has a list.  A 10 page list of places she'd like to go here in Ireland.  I'm pumped to see where this list will take us.  We've already been to Carrickfergus Castle because of her list and it was awesome.  The next on her list is Crumlin Road Gaol in Belfast.  So, off to the car to take the train into the city and see the sights!

We grabbed a bus from the train station and sat in the upper deck in the front.  Those tiny Belfast streets were no match for our bus driver who navigated cars, bikes, trees, pedestrians, scooters, lorries, and other buses with enviable ease.  We got off at his suggested stop and walked the block to the gaol.  Before you see the gaol, you see the old courthouse that is no longer in use and fallen into disrepair.  We learn later that it is supposed to be turned into a boutique hotel.  I hope they restore that grand building into something that preserves its stateliness.

Belfast and Gaol June 24th, 2019

The Gaol was built in 1843 and closed in 1996.  It has seen executions, but far less than US prisons.  The tour took us through the execution process including a surprise execution room adjacent to the cell the condemned would be kept in their last week on earth.  The original hanging rope and mechanism was still in the room.  It was really creepy and I wasn't very comfortable in the execution room.  Those executed were buried in an unmarked and unconsecrated grave somewhere on the grounds.  During renovations, the remains were discovered.

After 1996, the prison stood empty but in 2010 it was restored to its Victorian era specs.  This is unfortunate as they have stripped away any and all evidence of the very real political prisoners held there during the Troubles.  There are many a story these walls could tell about that part of recent history, but the choice was made to focus exclusively on the Victorian age.  We only heard a little about the Troubles from our tour guide.

After lunch at the cafe in the gaol, we set off it find Belfast Castle, but after an hour of walking and getting off at the wrong bus stop, Colleen and I decided to hop back to downtown and see some sights.  We hit a church, but it was pay to enter, so I just hummed, took photos of the cool flags and left.  Then on to the main part of downtown to the train station, then back to the hostel.

It's Sunday and we go to church!

Written by:  Amy in Nice listening to the people explore Old Town outside my windows

Going to church in Armagh Slideshow June 23, 2019

Armagh is the religious seat of both the catholic and the Church of Ireland (protestant) faiths for both the Republic of Ireland and Northern Ireland.  So, I knew that it was essential to experience both of these ceremonies on the same day.  This took a bit of planning.  But, I got our schedule of events down the night before.  We were going to go to the mass in the catholic cathedral at 11:00am then have lunch then go to evensong in the Church of Ireland (protestant) cathedral at 3:30pm. Evensong is performed by an all boys mixed aged choir and organ.  Not to be missed.  Colleen has never experienced either of these events, so I was super stoked to see them through her eyes.

We were a tiny bit late to mass at 11:00 because I was snapping photos as we approached this grand cathedral.  I couldn't help it, similar to Sacre Coeur in Paris, the approach to this building is magnificent and grand.  The steps, the statues, the cathedral itself are ornate in a way that lets you know you are but a supplicant.  This lateness brought us hurrying into the cathedral at 11:03 straight into an adult baptism.  This ceremony is performed at the entry to the cathedral so Colleen and I were super conspicuous opening the door, then quickly closing the door, then opening it again to slip to the side.  Thankfully, we were not the only ones late, but still, not how I wanted to  make our entrance.

Once the baptism was finished, Colleen and I took our seats.  We decided to go to the left of the cathedral thinking that we would be less noticeable there.  But, when I sat down, I was dismayed to find that I couldn't see the alter because of a GIANT pillar obstructing my view.  I motioned for Colleen to move and she pointed up at 1 of 15 televisions positioned around the cathedral.  This is a total first for me--TV in church?  Totally weird, but necessary due to the obstructions and length of the cathedral itself.  We missed none of the action.

The service begins in the usual way and I settle in to enjoy it--the choir is amazing, the organ is spot on, the soloist was exceptional.  I wasn't dialed into one of the priests because it was clear that this was something he'd done a million times before.  But, then the bishop got up to do the sermon and he totally got into the community aspect of church.  He called his parishioners to think about their community and the immigrant population as part of their community.  He discretely alluded to the treatment of immigrants in the US as and you totally understood that he felt called to help people regardless of the country code of their passport.  He called his people to action and admonished those with closed minds to open them in such a way that you couldn't excuse yourself from this issue.  He pointed out that ALL christians should be called to help their fellow humans--that this is directly from the bible and can not be ignored.  I know that immigration is usually seen as a political issue here in Ireland (and everywhere right now), but he humanized it and put it front and center to his message.

But, then when it was communion time, we got another surprise--there were 2 adult women who were receiving communion for the first time and being confirmed to the church.  3 services in one for Colleen who was a bit mystified--bonus round.  I can't remember if she'd ever seen a "regular" Sunday mass, but I absolutely know she's never seen a baptism and a confirmation.  I'd never seen how the ceremony differs for adults, so this was all new for me too.

Overall, a very good ceremony and I was glad that we were there to experience it all.

Leaving the cathedral, you notice immediately that at the top of the next hill is the protestant cathedral.  Both of these cathedrals are named after St. Patrick and they face each other.  The story is that St. Patrick came to this part of Ireland to spread christianity and on his way he saw a fawn.  Instead of allowing his followers to kill it, he picked it up and walked it to the spot where the catholic cathedral stands today.

After lunch, we made our way to evensong at the cathedral of St. Patrick Church of Ireland.  I have to admit that I've only been to a handful of protestant ceremonies.  I was really looking forward to this one as I love a good choir and organ combo.  We got to the cathedral in plenty of time--I'd learned my lesson that morning about being late--took out seats and watched.  The first thing you notice about the cathedral is that it is not ornate.  It is imposing, but stripped down to the most essential parts.  The service was focused more on the darker aspects of being human and moved to a lighter place in the end.  The choir was cute--off key, many time not understandable, but sang most of the service.  The organist was amazing.  He sang, played and kept herd on all the parts of the boys choir.  Interestingly, the message of the sermon was the same as the catholic one--community, refugees and immigrants.  After the service, I went up to offer my thanks to the organist and discovered the choir was missing 12 members who were out of town.  He really wanted me to come back to experience the whole choir.

The cathedral at the Church of Ireland has a progressive walled garden.  AMAZING!  I knew I needed to bring Kerry here.  Little did I know that the gardener I had seen the day before working on the garden was one of the officiants of the church.  I saw him in his garb and recognized him immediately.  I was to seem him tending to the church grounds throughout our stay in Armagh.

After that, Colleen had had enough and we headed the less than one block from the church to the hostel.




Carrickfergus Castle

Written by:  Amy sitting in her flat in Nice, France trying to decide how best to catch up the blog

Colleen and I jumped in the car and drove to Carrickfergus which was an hour away from Armagh in County Antrim overlooking what used to be called Carrickfergus Bay and is now called Belfast Lough.  Colleen only had 2 jump scares when I accidentally went through a turn circle without stopping and then went around a blind corner a little fast.  It may be that after those 2 incidents, she just accepted that she might not make it through this drive alive.  I can say that she was grateful to stop when we got there, lol.

A side note about driving here--it really doesn't bother me that the Irish drive on the right side of the car on the left side of the road.  Many of the cars here are manual transmission and run on diesel.  I know that this is quite the opposite in the US and people have asked if I experience issues.  Thankfully, I have ton of experience with manual transmissions and don't actually care what oil makes the car go.  Yes, you have to change gears with your left hand.  But, all the pedals are situated the same as any car I've ever been in.

So, what's my secret?  Well, as many of you know, I don't know my right from my left.  Seriously failed that part of Elementary/Primary School and other than some irritation when people try to give me driving directions using these terms, I don't really spend a lot of time lamenting this lack of knowledge.  Yes, before you ask, someone has tried to teach me MANY, MANY times (cough--Kerry, Dad).  I've done my best to learn this.  It doesn't stick and I no longer care.  I think this is one of the reasons I don't struggle much over here.  I know the driver goes in the middle of the road.  That's all the knowledge I need.  I do admit to being thoroughly frustrated when encountering lorries, tractors, bikes, and tour buses (all at the same time) on narrow roads.  Especially around blind corners.  This totally freaks me out and a couple of my family members here have had fatal car crashes with same. But, other than that, I'm good driving here.  I don't really notice the difference.  It's finally an occasion where one of my weaknesses might actually be a strength!

I have to say that Carrickfergus Castle was well worth the trip.  Seriously, what a castle!  For a full history, take the guided tour.  We were the only ones on the tour at that time because there was a parade to support differently abled adults going on while we were at the castle.  We saw the start of the parade and then couldn't resist the castle.  Our tour guide was phenomenal and really hooked Colleen into the structure, history and surroundings.  He really "got" her and engaged her the entire time.  Super awesome!

For those that want a brief history:

  • Built by Norman John de Courcy in 1177 after he gained control of Ulster and later Hugh de Lacy after de Lacy gained control from de Courcy.
  • Surrounded by the sea on a bluff and built to show the local Irish strength
  • There are guns and there are cannons and even though they look a lot alike, a gun fires something shaped like a bullet and a cannon fires...cannons?  Still unclear about the distinction.
  • Used militarily until 1928
  • The US occupied the site for one of the World Wars
  • Colleen wanted to go to this castle because it has evidence of being haunted

Instead of embedding photos to the blog, I'd like to try a slideshow instead:

Carrickfergus Castle Slideshow  June 22, 2019

Uncle Lee and Aunt LouAnne were so much in my thoughts during this tour--you guys would have LOVED this.  Seriously just loved it.  I can't wait to show both of you this castle when we all go to Ireland together.

Friday, July 5, 2019

All the Jobs I Can Never Have



Written by: Colleen in Edinburgh

So we’re just strolling around Dublin, right? Looking for a café or a castle, whichever comes first. And we’re walking past Dublin Castle (I think. It’s hard to keep track.) and I notice that the walls outside the castle have ben freshly painted, as in within the past few weeks freshly. My brain, being the abomination that it is, immediately puts out the thought, ‘Whose job is that? Who gets to do that for a living? Who gets to say, “Oh, no, mate, can’t go to the pub tonight, gotta finish PAINTING A CASTLE.”’.
There’s more.
Cathedral Tour Guide? BAM. That’s a job I can never have. Statue Cleaner? Never gonna happen. Working for the Queen? Get outta here! The impossibilities are endless!
Thanks for coming to my TED Talk!
That’s all.

-Colleen Cakebread

Summer 2019